I started this journey to help my self to remind my self of how to have a great life and live in the moment. Sometimes we don't have the environment to support us in our journey so I found books a great companion.
I am constantly reading and improving my self and although sometimes I break the rules , i revisit the situation again and see things through again.
This is the best time of my life for me, my family and I hope I can influence even if a little to yours.
1. Don't gossip , complain or criticize.
Your world is the most powerful you have.
Use it to bring somebody up and the world will be a better place.
2. Do not take anything personally.
Imagine you are driving in the road and didn't start the car when the light was green. How people treat you is a projection of who they are and how they are feeling. You can do the same thing everyday and only some people will start screaming and swearing to you, despite beeing a nuisance to many people.
3. Don't make assumptions. When you have people working for you or with you and things did not go as you expected, learn to ask question get clarification as to the reason. Don't assume anything. I remember in one of Dr Stephen Covey books when tell the story of Once he was in the train and a father with 3 children got in. The childrens were making a real mess and the father was only staring at the floor with saying a world. At that moment Stephen got a bit tense and asked him as to did he not see that his childrens were making a mess. At that moment the father said that their young mother had just died in the hospital and he didn't know what to do either. Next time you have a story in you head ask the other person to clarify and you will be better informed.
4. Always do your best, no body abuse us more that we abuse our self.
Have a great day
I will live you with the Toastmaster championship 2015. The winner say it better than me.
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